lovejesusandmary 耶穌聖母子女

2026年10月10日星期六

Our lady of success

對於在21 世紀受許多痛苦的修道者，our lady of success 曾預言這班人將有天堂很高的位置，所以痛苦的神父可以退休，但不應輕生

我反對越痛苦越有功勞。只要做以下幾點已足夠。不要貪食（戒甜品、零食。少吃肉但多吃魚），不要胡亂買過多必須品。不要奢侈。要神貧。要跟福音。要純潔，要祈禱，要領聖體，要告解，要捐錢，要看聖書。做到這些已是克苦犧牲愛主愛人。其他被動的痛苦，就由天主給，不要自找苦吃

For those religious and priests who suffer greatly in the 21st century, Our Lady of Success prophesied that they would have a very high place in Heaven. Therefore, a suffering priest can choose to retire in an early age, but should not commit suicide.

I oppose the idea that very great suffering equates to very great merit. Doing the following is sufficient: Do not be gluttonous (abstain from sweets and snacks; eat less meat but more fish), do not buy excessive necessities, do not be extravagant, be poor in spirit, follow the Gospel, be pure, pray a lot ,receive daily Communion, confess your sins regularly, regular donations, and read the Bible and holy books daily. Doing these things is already self-sacrifice, love for God and love for neighbor. Other pains will be granted by God for his purification or for the accumulation of his merits in heaven.

https://americaneedsfatima.org/articles/the-story-of-our-lady-of-good-success

“Until the end of the world I will have holy daughters, heroic souls, in the obscure life of their convent, who, suffering persecutions and slanders from within their own community, will be much loved by God and His Mother.… Their lives of prayer, penance, and sacrifice will be extremely necessary in all times. After having spent their lives unknown to all, they will be called to heaven to occupy an exalted throne of glory.” She then revealed to Mother Mariana that hers would be a long and suffering life, but she bid her never lose courage.

Saying this, she placed the Infant Jesus in the humble virgin’s arms. Clasping Him tightly to her heart, Mother Mariana felt the strength to suffer all for His honor and glory and the good of souls.

2026年10月9日星期五

護膚品。skin care products

我認為女性的護膚品應該：

在香港的2026 年水平下，女士的護膚品每月不應超過50-100（ 6-12 usd) 元。抗衰老產品不應用太多，簡單保護皮膚和保濕已足夠。但有二點必須強調：為保護皮膚，防曬傘和防曬霜是必須有，正如美國的修女都會用。過度追求美白和抗衰老是很貪慕虛榮的。美麗來時就美麗，衰老來時就衰老。不過我想提出，美白對某一些女士是需要的。有一些女孩子，小學中學時父母不保護她的皮膚，曬到很黑很醜。那麼她長大後用美白也是很正常。至於抗衰老？要老就老，不需要太注重抗衰老產品

I believe women's skincare products should: Based on Hong Kong's 2026 standards, women's monthly skincare product spending should not exceed HK$50-100.(6-12 usd). Anti-aging products shouldn't be overused; simple skin protection and moisturizing are sufficient. However, two points must be emphasized: For skin protection, sun umbrellas and sunscreen are essential, just as American nuns also use them. Excessively pursuing whitening and anti-aging is simply vanity. Beauty comes when it comes, and aging comes so let it comes. However, I would like to suggest that whitening is necessary for some women. Some girls, whose parents didn't protect their skin when they were small. They become ugly when grown up. It's normal for them to use whitening products later in life. As for anti-aging? For me there's no need to focus too much on anti-aging. products.

快樂生活

福音：

貧窮的人是有福的。。。。

飢餓的人是有福的。。。

不要為明天憂慮，你們自有衣服和食物。。。

當然，我們要努力工作，不可坐享其成。要學習st Benedict 每天工作才有麵包

但雖然過努力工作的生活，也不應奢侈。例如買名牌、買過多的衣服、買奢侈護膚品是有問題的。

飢餓的人是指守齋的人。他們不會放緃口慾，吃許多甜品、零食、肉食。也不會上高級餐廳。也不會時常外食。他們會節省金錢 , 及做飲食上的克苦

可能你們會想，我守齋，不穿美麗衣服，那我生活在俗世中，是否很痛苦？

不是的，我很快樂。雖然我朋友只有幾個，和家人不多溝通，但我的快樂來自祈禱、默想、看聖書、做善功和彌撒。

默主哥耶聖母曾說過，那些度真正祈禱和守齋的純潔孩子（即遵從聖母說要多認罪多告解），他們每天的祈禱會使他們從今世的生命超越到下一世的生命，感受到天堂的快樂。當然，聖母也說過，要進入天堂，無一個人是不需要痛苦的。聖母向st Bernadette 說，我承諾你會有快樂，但只有你在永生才感受到。

所以人生是有苦有樂。不會時常苦，也不會時常快樂。

祈禱，多收心孤獨，彌撒，善功，默想耶穌苦難，看聖書，跟福音（聖保祿書信只是參考，我們應首先跟福音耶穌）, 福傳，義工。這些東西加上每天的工作，已忙到你不容許自己再胡思亂想。你會感到非常快樂。再加上神婚的話，即使你無什麼朋友，只有幾個乏乏之交，你也內心很充實。

Happy life

The Gospel: Blessed are the poor...

Blessed are the hungry...

Do not worry about tomorrow; you will have your own clothes and food...

Of course, we must work hard and not take things for granted. We should learn from St. Benedict and work every day to earn our bread.

But even while living a life of hard work, we should not be extravagant. For example, buying famous brands, too many clothes, or luxury skincare products is wrong.

The hungry refer to those who always fast. They will not indulge their cravings, eating many sweets, snacks, or meats. They will not go to eat out frequently. They will not go to fine dining restaurant. They will save money and practice dietary austerity.

You might think, "I always fast, I don't wear beautiful clothes, so is that my life in this secular world very painful?"

No, I am very happy. Although I have only a few friends and don't communicate much with my family, my happiness comes from prayer, meditation, reading the holy books ,doing good works, and attending Mass.

Medjugorje Mary said that those devoted children who truly pray and fast (that is, those who follow Our Lady's advice to confess their sins often and live a pure life) will experience the joy of Heaven in this life . She said to obtain this truly happy life one must pray. Of course, Our Lady also said that no one can enter Heaven without suffering. Our Lady told St. Bernadette, "I promise you happiness, but you will only experience it in eternal life."

Therefore, life has both joy and sorrow. It is not always sorrowful, nor is it always joyful.

Prayer, solitude, attending Mass, doing good deeds, meditating on the Passion of Jesus, reading the Holy books, following the Gospel (the Epistles of St. Paul are only for reference; we should first follow the Gospel of Jesus), evangelization, voluntary work... These things will keep you so busy that you won't allow yourself to think negative things. You will feel very happy if you do these. If you have spiritual marriage ( or called mystical marriage)with Jesus like the nuns and the priests, you will feel much more happier.

Spiritual marriage ( mystical marriage) : those who enter the secular institute can be espoused to Jesus , just like priests and nuns

2026年10月4日星期日

Catholicism is too beautiful!

Catholicism: Catholicism is so beautiful. Male Catholics are steadfast, self-disciplined, silent, refrain from speaking ill of others, humble, solitary, loving but not boastful.

Catholic women are gentle, chaste, patient, pure of heart, introspective, praying, and obedient.

Compared to other Christian religions, Catholicism does not distort the Bible, does not create its own laws, does not deviate from the Gospel, and does not ignore the Old Testament's moral laws. Literary Old Testament laws are not observed; for example, the Old Testament prohibitions against making icons of God and the daily sacrifice of bulls and pouring of blood on the altar are not observed in the New Testament. Catholic catechism is the liturgy connecting the Old and New Testaments, calling on people to obey the teachings of God the Father (Old Testament) and God the Son Jesus.

Catholicism is so beautiful. The saints' works in Catholicism are flawless. Incredibly beautiful.

Catholicism is the only, most holy, and most catholic true Christian religion that follows the teachings of Jesus and God the Father.

天主教：

天主教太美了。男性天主教徒堅忍、克己、沉默、不說壞話、自謙自卑、守獨處、有愛心但不自誇。

天主教女性温柔、貞潔、含忍、潔淨心靈、內修、祈禱、服從

比起其他基督宗教，天主教不歪曲聖經、不會自訂法律、不會不跟福音、不會不理會舊約關於道德性的法律。禮儀上的舊約法律不用守，例如舊約不可造天主聖像、要天天殺牛倒血在祭壇，這些在新約不用守。天主教教理是舊約連接新約的禮典，叫人遵守天主聖父（舊約）和天主聖子耶穌的教訓。

天主教太美了。天主教的聖人遺作簡直是天衣無縫。美得不可交加

天主教是唯一、至聖、至公的真正信從耶穌和天主父教訓的基督宗教。

How i read bible

Here are some points to share: Since converting to the catholic church, I have read both the Old and New Testaments once. To save time and for what is most beneficial to my soul, I do the following:

1. Read only the Moses five books, the Prophets, and the Psalms in the Old Testament regularly and frequently.

2. Read only the four Gospels, the Epistles of Peter, James, and John, and the Book of Revelation in the New Testament frequently.

I don't read the Epistles of Paul because they don't offer much benefit to my spiritual progress.

This may not be true for others; I'm only sharing my own experience.

I read many works and biographies of saints. They are as important as the Bible.

While I encourage people to study the Old Testament, I oppose male circumcision. This is a ceremonial law of the Old Testament, not a moral law. We should strive morally; adhering to the ceremonial teachings of the Catholic Church in the New Testament era is sufficient. Priests also say that circumcision is dangerous and unhygienic, making one susceptible to infection.

這些是一點分享：

自從入教後，把舊約和新約全部看了一次後，以後我為省時間及對我靈魂最有益，我就：

1。舊約只看梅瑟五書，先知書，聖詠。

2。新約只看四福音，聖伯多祿書信、聖雅各伯書信、聖若望書信和默示錄

對於聖保祿書信，我不會看，因為它對我靈修進步無太大益處。

對其他人可能不是，我只分享自己。

我看許多聖人

著作和傳記。它們和聖經一樣重要。

雖然我鼓勵人看舊約，我反對男人割損。這是舊約的禮儀法律，不是舊約的道德法律。我們應在道德上努力，禮儀守好新約時代天主教教會教的已足夠。神父也說割損是危險和不衛生，容易感染

2026年9月21日星期一

獨處的聖人

在神視中，天主告訴聖女大德蘭她唯一的朋友是天使

（勇敢的大德蘭一書）

聖傅天娜曾說, 我的唯一朋友是天使。

（聖女傅天娜日記）

聖人往往是不受人理解，常遭反對、誣陷的。

St charbel 是一個hermit 隱修士。

2026年9月16日星期三

St. Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows, incorruptible saint

St. Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows: The Young Man Who Gave Up His Old Life for Christ

𝘏𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴, 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘳, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘢𝘴 𝘢 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘢𝘯. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘩𝘪𝘮 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘦𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺—and 𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘢 𝘱𝘳𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘳𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦.

the body of Saint Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows was found to be incorrupt when it was exhumed years after his death. [1]

Exhumation timeline: His body was examined decades after he passed away from tuberculosis in 1862. [1]

Reports from his cause for canonization noted that his bodily remains were preserved (incorrupt).

His sacred relics are now housed and venerated at the Sanctuary of St. Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows in Isola del Gran Sasso, Italy.

“I have given myself entirely to God.”

Born in Assisi in 1838, St. Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows was baptized in the very same baptismal font where St. Francis of Assisi had been baptized centuries earlier.

But Gabriel did not begin his life as the solemn religious people might imagine.

As a young man, he was charming, sociable, and well liked. He enjoyed the pleasures and attention that came with youth. He could spend hours in front of a mirror making sure he looked perfect before going to parties. He was known among his friends as something of a ladies' man, and he even dreamed of finding a young woman he could marry.

His life seemed headed in an ordinary direction.

Then everything changed.

Gabriel became seriously ill.

Faced with the possibility of death, he turned to God and prayed for healing. In his desperation, he made a promise: if God spared his life, he would leave his old way of living behind and enter religious life.

He recovered.

And Gabriel did not forget his promise.

He entered the Passionist religious order and took the name Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows, placing himself under the protection of the Blessed Virgin Mary. The young man who had once cared deeply about his appearance and worldly pleasures gradually became known for his humility, purity, charity, prayer, and deep love for Christ.

His conversion was not simply a change of clothing or surroundings. It was a change of heart.

Gabriel embraced religious life with remarkable joy and devotion. He became especially devoted to the Passion of Christ and to Our Lady of Sorrows, seeking to unite his own life and suffering with the suffering of Jesus.

Yet his health remained fragile.

He eventually contracted tuberculosis, the disease that would take his life. His illness became increasingly severe, and he grew weaker as the years passed.

He never became a priest.

On February 27, 1862, at only 23 years old, Gabriel died at the Passionist monastery in Isola del Gran Sasso, Italy.

His life had been short, but his transformation was extraordinary.

The young man who once dreamed of parties, romance, and worldly admiration had discovered something greater: a life completely given to God.

He had left behind the person he once was and found his identity in Christ and under the loving care of the Blessed Virgin Mary.

St. Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows was canonized in 1920 by Pope Benedict XV. He is remembered especially as a patron of young people and students.

His feast is celebrated on February 27—and on February 28 in leap years.

St. Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows, pray for us.

🙏❤️ May we have the courage to leave behind whatever keeps us from God and give our lives completely to Christ.

my spiritual experience

Here is my spiritual experience:

Don't ask others: How much do you pray daily, how much do you meditate, how much do you read the Bible, how many times do you receive Holy Communion, how much money do you donate?

Everyone's capacity is limited. Some are healthy, some have domestic helper(it's better if they don't have, as this is even poorer in spirit), some have no children, some have parents who take care of everything, some are retired, some are smarter and have earned a lot of money; the good deeds they do vary.

A patient with many illnesses, needing dialysis, daily injections and medication, spends more time resting and sleeping than a nun, so the nun does more than him.

So, since he prays less than others,and he can only donate little , then he cannot become sanctified?

No.

The most important things are:

1. Pray daily for your own sanctification, even if you fail repeatedly.

2. Accept the pain of being inferior to others , cultivate humility daily

3. Accept the suffering of life and physical illness.

4. Act of contrition before sleep. Repent sincerely. If you cannot receive Holy Communion in mass, pray for spiritual communion.

5. Maintain your purity and innocence, and do confession regularly, at least once every two weeks.

6. Learn to let go. Focus solely on your spiritual practice and don't compare yourself to others.

What harm does comparing yourself to others do?

Jealousy, hatred, malice, despondency, loss of motivation for sanctification, resentment towards God, cessation of good deeds, alienation from God, hatred of the world, and seeking out Buddhist books, leading to demonic harassment.

Don't ask others how they cultivate virtue, and don't boast. If you have questions, buy some holy books and read them yourself. Keep your holiness in your own heart; there's no need to share it with everyone. Some people will smile and say nice things to you, but will try to take an opportunity in the future to harm you , causing you to sin greatly. After you sin, you may still thank them wholeheartedly ,which will only make the devils' plans more successful.

Most importantly, do your best in everything you can to sanctify yourself, using your natural gifts of health or any ailments you may have. Don't share with others everything about yourself, especially your sanctity ; solitude may sometimes is the safest place.

不要問別人

這是我以下的靈修經歷：

不要問別人：你每天祈禱多少，默想多少，看聖書多少，聖體降福多少，捐多少錢

每人能力有限。有人有健康的，有工人的（無工人更好，更神貧），無子女的，有父母打點一切的，退休的，較聰明賺到不少錢的；做的善功各有不同。

一個有很多病，要洗腎、每天打針吃藥的病人，休息和睡覺的時間比一個修女更多，所以修女做的比他更多

那麼他祈禱又少，捐款又不能多，他不能成聖？

不是的

最重要的是：

1。每天要為自己成聖祈禱，雖然屢敗屢挫

2。每天接受自己比人差的痛苦，修謙德

3。接受生活和身體的病苦

4。每天睡前省察，上等痛悔，不能實領聖體就神領聖體

5。保持無罪的純潔，定期找神父告解，最少二週一次

6。懂得放手，在神修上只管盡力，不要和別人比較

和別人比較有什麼害處？

妒忌，憎恨，心地歹毒，頹喪，不再有力去成聖，憤恨天主，停止善功，遠離天主，憎恨世界，尋找外教的書導致魔鬼騷擾

不要問人他怎修德，也不要炫耀。有問題自己買聖書看。把自己的聖德放在自己心中，無需和別人分享，因為有些人聽後笑笑口對你，趁機會就陷害你，令你犯罪，你犯了罪還要多謝他，他更得逞。

最重要是盡自己能力、本份、天生的健康恩賜或所負的疾病，盡自己所能去做成聖的每一件事，不要和別人分享，多獨處，就是最安全。

2026年9月14日星期一

THE 100 REQUIEM PRAYER

DEVOTION TO THE HOLY SOULS IN PURGATORY

THE 100 REQUIEM PRAYER

(Blessed Ana Maria Taigi was very devoted to the souls in Purgatory. She was generous in giving suffrages to the souls by praying 100 Requiem. She testifies that through this prayer she obtains many heavenly favors in different circumstances and for various needs.)

Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord And let perpetual light shine upon them.

May they rest in peace. Amen. (10 times)